1. Perfect Doesn't Exist

What to share? Do I share everything all at once? Do I share a little of myself at a time? How will I be perceived? What will people think? Will I be judged? These are all questions we ask ourselves. We all desperately want to be loved and accepted for who we are. Love and Acceptance starts from within and the sooner you realize and learn this, you will finally be free. You learn not to care what others think and start to live unapologetically yourself because the only person you need validation from is yourself.

Hi, my name is Megan. It took me a long time to finally decide to start a blog. Mainly having to do with fear. Fear of judgement; what others will think and the truth is, I no longer care. I’ve realized I have so much knowledge I want to share and

incredible insights I just cannot keep them to myself even if it helps only ONE person, that's great with me.

Life Lesson #1 (if you don't already know):

The reality is, people are going to judge you regardless. Everyone’s perception is different and wouldn't you rather people judge you and have whatever opinion they want to have on you to come from your authentic self and not some false-self I see people create in order to fit in. That is how you attract your real tribe. That is how you attract the people you want into your life and the ones that want to stay in it. The ones who accept your authentic self. Not these fake relationships you get my pretending to be whomever you thought you had to be in order to fit in and you end up never feeling whole. Who wants that? This is a much better way to live. What if they don’t like me? What if this? What if that? By being brave enough to be unapologetically yourself, you’ll discover you shouldn’t of been hiding all long. Be your cute, little, weird self...and for God's sake, set healthy boundaries! You are high value! Many people will love it! If it makes people leave your life, then know that it was for a reason and God will provide your tribe.

That saying people are here for a reason, a season, or a lifetime is true. If it's a reason or a season, learn the lesson and get back up again stronger with more knowledge and compassion. Ask yourself why questions and wait for Him to answer. Because whatever your beliefs are, there is a Higher Power and the answer WILL come to you...like magic. What can I learn from this? How can I do better? And then, do better because... you know better. Don't be ashamed of your mistakes. Own them. You didn't know, you learned. Always be gentle and have patience with yourself. I don't know about you, but I know a lot of people who criticize themselves and mentally beat themselves up. Why is this? Because we try to be perfect and the truth is, we will never be perfect. Perfect doesn't exist.

We all have our obstacles to face and problems to solve; we are all learning. Let that be the beauty of it all and share your insights with others because you never know who is of need of hearing them.